Want to get more from your sex life? A few small changes can take your enjoyment to the next level or rekindle the spark! Try some of these ideas to upgrade your sex life.
Good communication lies at the heart of every healthy sex life. Talk to your partner about what you like. Discuss what you don’t like. Suggest new things or explore the topic together. The more frequently you can talk about sex, the more natural it will become. A good tip is to have these conversations away from the bedroom so that your partner doesn’t feel pressure about their performance.
Try Something New
There is a huge world of sex toys, sex games, erotica, porn and aids designed to appeal to all kinds of sexually active people. Whether you are heterosexual, same-sex, able-bodied or disabled, into fetish, prefer ‘the basics’ or interested in learning a new sexual skill, you’ll find something to suit. Go online for inspiration or into a sex shop, or treat yourself to a discreet mail order catalogue so that you can explore new options together.
Take Care Of Your Sexual Health
Some STIs come with no symptoms, so it’s important to have regular checks if you are sexually active. The good news is that you can do home STI kits Bexley wide and across the UK – without needing to go to a clinic. Find out more at home STI kits Bexley.
Take Sex off the Menu
Sometimes sex can become pressured, so why not take it off the menu and reconnect with your partner? Try couples massage with massage oil and spend time exploring each other’s bodies. Communicate, take it slow, enjoy the time together and commit to not actually having sex! This will allow you to rediscover what turns each other – and yourself – on and to build anticipation.
Try Something New
Go to a hotel with a lavish bed. Try a different position. Experiment with a little role play. Treat yourself to new underwear so that you feel sexy and desirable. Whatever you do to freshen up your sex life, enjoying something new will really benefit you both. It doesn’t have to be big, and it doesn’t have to be expensive – just have fun trying new things with your partner and see what happens!